We need each other

I dreamt of a baby today. But this is always the case with me. Perhaps my longing to fill my life. The child looked so great. Has anyone dreamt of babies? What does it mean?

We need each other in this journey. More childless couples in Malaysia are sometimes left to be on their own. The case is, no one else will ever understand our feeling and scarred emotions, but people who are in the exact situation as us. Who went through painful injections, cycles of failure and the struggle to cope with infertility only to be empty handed again.

That is the main reason we need each other. As friends who truly know how each other feels. Vent out our feelings and let go of stuff.

What are your thoughts on such friends in this journey? I believe we will be a support to each other, and bring in more positive outlook on coping our lives indeed.

Journey from nothing to the unsure

I am just one of the many women and men in this journey of infertility.

I thought many a times that someone should start a blog, a place where we can just share our concerns, worries or just to talk about what each day brings us.

Perhaps this is the reason I wanted to bring a blog for us men and women who have accepted such a childlessness in our lives.

We may have other options for adoption, of an awaiting adoption process, or just a state of full acceptance of a life without children. Whatever it is, its a great life to explore.

I thought of something while thinking much about children itself. Perhaps God has a great reason to set us aside for a honorable assignment in raising adopted children as our own. Or for those who seek to live your lives without children by your choice, its also a blessing for the two of you on this decision.

Who says without children there is no happiness? God himself did not pro-create children for Himself. He created us and all His creation. And it was never His need to have His own seed. He is ever loving and ever merciful to us, His creation. Thus, I am very grateful for God's decision to bring us to this contentment in life.

We are never alone. Many millions walk this journey and we have a great Creator who cares. Surrender all to Him and just share this sorrow and joy together.

God Bless you all!