Don't you hate to answer them?

I often get irritated when someone in a function or event asks me about my plans on children. Its not that I am emotional but it agitates me to see people who don't respect sensitivity of childless couples.

We rather not be told how to get pregnant because its not like we never tried. People have to understand from our point of view that pregnancy is tough for us to achieve because we have travelled very far in this journey, struggling with all sorts of issues pertaining conception. We have tried all sorts of treatment, and gave our full strength and dedication towards achieving pregnancy. But if all fails, are we to blame?

I believe these people whom we meet at wedding functions, birthday functions, or simply for other events out there, should start educating themselves on how to think of the rest of the world first. They live in a world which they think is perfect because they had things easily. Its just like owning large amounts of money. To the millionaire, its pretty simple to make huge loads of cash. But to a normal person, we still ponder on how, and we struggle to reach there. Its pure luck, in different sense - biology!

So, people, please understand us childless couples. Stop asking questions that will hurt us. Instead, speak about other stuff that matters most in life - Work, Charity, Righteousness...things that declares or helps your journey to heaven! For that is more important than children and money and all worldly matters, isn't it?

Have a pleasant day!